Sounds like you and H might be headed into one of those limbos so common around here. Fun, fun. Glad you had a baby shower and some fun stuff to do this weekend.

Def. tell your psych. what happened with that man. Since separated, I feel more vulnerable in general in a way I did not when I was single the first time, to the extent of getting irritated when men hit on me instead of just blowing it off like I used to. If I got harassed at this point, it would not be good for my psyche.