L I always felt the OW put blinders on she put up with anything sh3 was living with a M man and being 14 years younger in her mid twenties.. she saw my xh coming here staying for long periods of time visiting his children at first 6x a week Im sure xh lied to her he certainly lied /denied her to me MY brother knew OW..sahe was xh secretary for a while my brother didnt know about the A they hid it he worked with xh brother said she was a bimbo/ druggie type with cosmtic enhancments..she drank and smoked partied some I never did
I never met her..she called me once..long after the A started after they were m I THINK SHE SOUNDED MOUSELIKE she called for one reason, but I sensed she was calling to clear the air with me like me affirming her or their R b/c they were M now I gave her nothing ..told her I cant talk right now or anytime in the future to her--but I was professional and cordial to her and got off quickly like the way one might handle a phone soliciter I beleive most of these OW are predater types they have little morals ..self centered they are sick sad part is when OW hooked up with xh he had a good business he was somewhat stable a good father he was clean and sober he might have been a good catch to someone like her
but now he is on drugs/drinking total liar on unemployment no job IN debt so sadly so, she is M to a real mess peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow