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I always felt the OW put blinders on
she put up with anything
sh3 was living with a M man and being 14 years younger in her mid twenties..
she saw my xh coming here staying for long periods of time
visiting his children at first 6x a week
Im sure xh lied to her
he certainly lied /denied her to me
MY brother knew OW..sahe was xh secretary for a while
my brother didnt know about the A they hid it
he worked with xh
brother said she was a bimbo/ druggie type with cosmtic enhancments..she drank and smoked partied some
I never did

I never met her..she called me once..long after the A started after they were m I THINK
SHE SOUNDED MOUSELIKE
she called for one reason, but I sensed she was calling to clear the air with me
like me affirming her or their R b/c they were M now
I gave her nothing ..told her I cant talk right now or anytime in the future to her--but I was professional and cordial to her and got off quickly like the way one might handle a phone soliciter
I beleive most of these OW are predater types
they have little morals ..self centered they are sick
sad part is when OW hooked up with xh
he had a good business
he was somewhat stable a good father
he was clean and sober
he might have been a good catch to someone like her

but now he is on drugs/drinking
total liar
on unemployment
no job
IN debt
so sadly so, she is M to a real mess
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow