Destiny, What do you do? Nothing. Do not call or text him right now. He still has 30 days before deployment. When the time gets closer, you can send him a text wishing him the best and to stay safe. He already knows that you love him and want him to return to the marriage/relationship. You do not need to keep saying ILU to him....for it is pushing him further away and it's called pursuing.
You are entitled to half of everything that you and your h built together and I wouldn't give him everything. He's the one that walked out on you and the marriage. Why would you give him everything? Please don't throw everything away just to prove to him that you care and want him to have everything. For one thing, he wouldn't care one bit and most likely if you gave him everything, he would give it all away, etc. MLCers like to do their own thing and all of your items would be smacking him in the face and reminding him of what he's done. No, I wouldn't give anything up at this point.
Find something else to focus on today. You do not need to set yourself up for another round of disappointment.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
