I just want to jump in here and remind you all that Divorce Busting is not a 'one size fits all' philosophy. What works for one couple might not work for another, and may make matters even worse. It is often a matter of trial and error, becoming a solution detective, and figuring out what works best for you. Remember Michele's words "If what you're doing is working, then keep doing it. If what you're doing is not working, then do something different." Experiment and monitor the results.
If you are getting help from a Divorce Busting Coach, I strongly suggest that you follow your coach's suggestions. Divorce Busting Coaches are experts at helping people get their marriages back on track. They each have many, many years of very successful experience. They know what works!
