Hi SA,

Weekend was GREAT, had fantastic time with D & her friend. I must say I didn't even miss him being there with us (progress lol)

Originally Posted By: seeking answers
Hi Mila,
There is a list of 36 questions on the 40/60 site about whether it's a MLC or not and I can give a definite yes answer to 29 of those questions for H.


I will look at these

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I believe my H is having a MLC complicated with andropause as I believe his testosterone level is very low.


I suspect that as well, WH is depressed, has memory loss and had some mild issues with arousal (pre affair). Had physical, but didn't ask the doctor for hormone test as I suggested.

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Not my problem anymore. He'll work it out or he won't. I'm working very hard on the detaching thing because I can't fix this. Accepting that fact is me working on me, also.


ditto



(((Hugs back)))


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO