DU, I don't know if I'm the best person to give advice, I'm pretty new at this myself. My WH left in January. In between September (that's when I discovered his Affair) and January, I've done nothing but try to make him see how much I love him, I also said it many (to many) times. It got to the point that I stopped expressing my love because it hurt to much not to hear it back. HE KNOWS how I feel.
I try to treat him with love, caring and compassion. I show my love without saying it. When he was leaving I told him that despite his choices I still care about him very much, that this is not what I want and that I'm letting him go because that's what he wants. I know that he knows that the door is still open, he just doesn't know how much.
I don't know if this helps you, this is just how I chose to tell my WH that I still care. You are the only one who knows what's best for you.
Last edited by Mila; 03/21/1001:12 PM.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
