I am tempted to call or email my H to tell him that I love him.
DU, You are not supposed to tell him ILU. That's pursuing. It's up to you....but think about why you feel the need to tell him and what do you expect that he will reply? You may be setting yourself up for another disappointment.
BTW I'm happy to hear that you are re-considering the "giving up everything" strategy.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO