He might be in MLC, thats really not for me to decide. He sounds confused.
My sich didn't really start on these boards so it might be harder to follow. Basic DB'ing is all the same. My suggestion is to stick with that. In MLC there is no tricks, or pills that will fix everything. What you are doing now is fine, just be careful being to aggressive trying to fix your H. If he is in MLC that will not work.
Spend your time: reading the resources in MLC at the top of the board.
