LRT - Does it leave open for OW?

[lees]

So without the kids to keep your contact going and allow the WAS to see your changes how do you do this?

I've been dark for not very long really - I suppose maybe a couple of weeks but she would still phone me and ask for stuff frequently and have minor R talks. I've been truly dark for about 4 days after telling her not to contact me unless she wishes to discuss our marriage (prior to finding DB online). There is already OM firmly involved and has been since at least 2 weeks after she ended our marriage, and they knew each other for several months before this. The OM professes to be in love with her - I asked her if she was with him and she wouldn't answer.

I'm feeling at the moment that since I went dark she'll just forget, is busy doing lots of exciting things with the OM and generally living the Life of Riley. I slammed the door on her "needing" me to help with her computer issues. Now I know that she has the OM laptop instead. I feel very much like I've just been replaced.

How do I get out of this situation? I've got the DR book and am waiting for the DB book to arrive.