Originally Posted By: Gnosis

Frac, I'm going to say this one more time: C A L M D O W N

You seem to be under the impression that this is a race when it's not. Time and patience are your allies here. THERE IS NO RUSH.



Sorry Gnosis. I appreciate your support and I am trying to calm down (I know it barely shows but I took anti depressants and even that couldn't sleep) Sorry, Im really doing my best.


I do understand it's no race but I do feel time is working against me.
There's this very small window of opportunity before the OM tells the wife.
In one of his emails he tells my wife "that might happen sooner than expected".

Also as soon as I start disconnecting the phone, moving money, etc she'll probably put more pressure on him, don;t you think? Since I'm out of the way.

Not to mention I have a [censored] storm consistently coming at me at work for the next months so I'm trying to maximize weekends.

So I did my home work, just need to get her phone number as we're in different continents I can't do it personally. Are FB and Email other methods? to reach her?

Pls read through my post and see if it's starting to look more like a plan.
Comments/ideas/slaps in the face are always welcome.

Thanks



Last edited by Fracesc; 03/21/10 10:46 AM.

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