I have been thinking (really). I realize that I may never know why this is happening to my WH, but that's not stopping me in trying to "understand".

We started dating when I was 16 him 17. We were each other's "first". As far as I know, in all his life, my WH only had 3 sexual partners besides me (2x one-nighters & one affair 20 years ago). What role could this play in his MLC?

Does he feel that he's missed out, that he didn't "experience" other women, that he never had any serious relationships beside me. Is this what his "replay" is all about? If that's what he is trying to change and catch up on, he may never look back...

Even if this is the case, does it make any difference what his reasons for "replay" are to the outcome?

I know that I may get some 2x4 for trying to analyze his MLC.

Last edited by Mila; 03/21/10 09:52 AM.
M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO