You are probably not going thru MLC but maybe male menopause!
I just read this book called "Male Menopuase" by Jed Diamond. I could really relate to this book and I found out that all men go thru this process. Whether you are in a MLT or a MLC is all in how you deal with all of this.
I wasn't referring to Piano's sich with my post, just a general comment for all who are reading here.