Bo Peep essentially tells WAS that, while you don't agree with what they are doing, you are prepared to put up with it indefinitely.

It shows weakness and certainly won't earn your WAS's respect back. Why should it, they are doing exactly what their chemicals are telling them too, being secretive, mysterious and having FUN - and all the time you're sitting at home telling them you're OK with it.

Piano I know you're coming into the last 2 months of your pregnancy and anything you do for the next while will be super hard, but I really think that you should be going more hardball with H.

He's failed in getting a job interstate and is showing some interest in being around when the happy day arrives. I really think now is the time to drive home your 'advantage' - tell him you don't need him, you'll be fine on your own. As we say in my country 'Put the ball back in his court'.

But the proviso here is that you HAVE to be prepared to do all that if he won't play ball.


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010