How to approach W about OM

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I had the opportunity to see my W b4 she lkeft for work and surprisingly she WAS wearing her ring. I cannot remember the last time she wore her ring to work.

A friend of mine said to me and I cannot remember the exact word but it made sense
Its like kindling a fire, you start with small stuff twigs, branches ect to get the fire going but when the fire starts going you toss bigger logs on and smother the flames and eventually the fire dies.