I'm relatively new here, but after reading heaps of forum- posts from very experienced DBers, my gut is also starting to tell me that the Bo Peep method really is too LAME, especially in severe cases.
But........ my DB coach & the DR book are advocating Bo Peep. (as I understand it, cos I have little bargaining power with WAH right now).
Result? TOTAL INERTIA in my DB'ing efforts. Don't know my a%% from my elbow, as we like to say in my country!
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369