New thread same story

[kjensen]

HI D-
Hasn't happened to me, but I think your thought about the "high" being unsustainable could be right...it also could be that because she is in a broken state right now..that no relationship will really "work", not even yours!

Sounds positive that some kind of revelation is happening for her more quickly with each relationship...

I do know from experience, that everything hurt more when I thought of H as my spouse..felt much more personal.

My detachment, as it is progressing, has been helped by the fact that we are getting divorced..I HAVE to detach, as he already is long gone from this relationship as it was..

If we ever find each other again, the relationship will have to be new and different(and better)..but for now he is the father of my beautiful daughters..He seems to be a stanger on so many levels...

So..whatever you can do to detach more will help you find peace where you are right now. I think when everyone says focus on yourself, that is one way to start the mental detachment,but the emotional detachment seems to take alot longer and is trickier to accomplish! But if anyone can do this, I know you can!

I hope the job search is proving fruitful! Thinking of you! Have a wonderful weekend!