OK after spending the day thinking I realized I'm still thinking of my wife as my spouse instead of just an aquaintance.

Any "relationship" that may come out of it will be based on her lies so is doomed to fail.

I have a question for anyone that might know. My wife has had "feelings" for 5 different men(not all resulted in physical relationships). Each one lasted a shorter period of time than the one before(6 mos. 5mos. 3 mos. 1 month 3 wks). Is this coincidental or is the "high" just not able to be sustained as long? Just found it a bit interesting.