Gosh, Flowmom,
Mb has to have a prepared response since I am certain her husband is not going to drop the D talk (since he is selfishly trying to aleive his guilt)

Saffie, there are stats somewhere. There are databases pertaining to psychology and peer reviewed articles and they would have the info. I am certain there is more than 'pop' articles. there is a scientific basis and the studies have to be "peer reviewed". I think Psychoinfo is one such database that most University's have (usually free to anyone who would like to access). Pubmed.gov may have some stuff also. You can just google for "statistics" and ".gov" or ".edu" for more authoritative stuff


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)