Gardener, I also think that the section on "Internalizing the Rejection" will be key for me too. That happened to me as a child, and I'm back there again. Thanks for catching up with me...
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.