Originally Posted By: Gnosis

One thing people seem to have missed is that OM is in Asia somewhere. This will restrict his abilities to track down OMW without letting the cat out of the bag.

For you Frac...

You seem to be extremely scared of your W when it should be the other way around. With that in mind I want you to think about this carefully because I seem to be the only one who can see this for now... You have a HECK of a lot more power over this than you think you have.

Here's some questions for you:

1. In who's name is the immigration visa to the US?
2. Have you been naturalized yet?
3. Have you been to see a lawyer?
4. Why are you so scared of your W?


I intend to re read the whole thing in a sec. And do a recap. I still need to answer very practical questions as the Joint accounts, etc.

Few, notes. The OM is not in Asia, he is based in the US and Latinamerica.


1. I'm not in the US. I'm somewhere in Europe. My residence card is in my wife's name but she offered even if we separated she wouldn't get a divorce so I could stay. (I'm pretty sure the company I work for would sponsor me anyway)

2. No. I have a Residence card valid for another 5 years.
3. Nope.
4. I'm scared to lose her. And feel very guilty that I pushed her into that place. I'm sorry. Part of the process is accepting your part of the responsability. I am doing that.


Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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