Fracesc the board policy forbids people from sharing direct contact information with each other. However a lot of us are members of the DivorceBusting FaceBook group.
Since privacy is a concern of yours I'd create a new FB profile and join the DB group there. I'm a member of that DB group there you can look me up on there because I use the same last name on FB as I do here.
What would be a good exercise for you is to go back to the beginning of your thread and re-read everything. I haven't even had a chance to do this yet. You've received a lot of advice today take some time and read it.
One thing people seem to have missed is that OM is in Asia somewhere. This will restrict his abilities to track down OMW without letting the cat out of the bag.
For you Frac...
You seem to be extremely scared of your W when it should be the other way around. With that in mind I want you to think about this carefully because I seem to be the only one who can see this for now... You have a HECK of a lot more power over this than you think you have.
Here's some questions for you:
1. In who's name is the immigration visa to the US? 2. Have you been naturalized yet? 3. Have you been to see a lawyer? 4. Why are you so scared of your W?
