How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

I pretty have stopped the "can I get you this?" Mannerisms. If she asks I do it. There are times where I do feed off her in a sense. For example she will show or tell me something she wants for the home (or whatever) and I would ask "do you want to do that?" Then she would reply most the time "its up to you" and it puts me in a tough spot. I will heed your advice and back off more...

I want to add I seen in another thread where a person DB'n with a similiar situation and it was suggested by someone else to be overly nice ect since it was oppisite in the past I will link you when I can...