You are not factoring in the fact that the reason for you exposing to his wife is that HE MAY DUMP YOUR WIFE. If he dumps her then she is OUT. She will then come back to you.
Don't get me wrong, I'm going to do this. Big time. Cold Blood. Now would she get back to me? We had unresolved issues. They'll still be there.
The more i find about this affair the more she says I failed. She does mentions me a lot in her conversations with him and her best friend. But both respond, "Yes, I know how it is, but you should remember he made you suffer". (as in neglected her, but was only because i was trying to support our house! I told her a million times i was taking care of her and felt guilty all the time for not being with her but didn't have a choice!!!!)
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
