Talked to an old family friend of mine and my XW's. She tells me that my XW refuses to talk about our divorce or even what is going on in her life with her.
Our old friend sensed something wasnt right and asked her if they were still friends or not (point blank) and my XW just gave her the usual brush off. "We can talk later" etc.
Seems my XW is shunning even old long term friends in favor of her high school facebook re-aquantences from 30+ years ago. This side of her really creeps me out. Im sure her old HS friends think she is a darling since that is the way she presents herself to them electronically.
These people do not know her nor does she know them but she does not get this. This was over 30 YEARS ago for crying out loud! It reeks of MLC. This can't be good for her and Im afraid it will come back to hurt her somehow when reality sets in (if ever).
Other than this and her destroying our marriage she appears to lead a normal professional life at work. Or at least I pray this is the case as she is only 2 years away from retirment. I do not want her to screw this up for herself.
But since going from Grey to Dark I now have no clue what she is up to. And I should not care. That's what going dark is for, detachment!
My new hobby is spending time with my own new friend. She is a breath of fresh air in my life and takes all this nonsense out of my mind. At least temporarily. I am working on making this indiference permanent but still have a long way to go. Im guessing at least a year maybe but time has no meaning for me right now.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
