OR SHOULD I BE THE ONE MAKING THE CALL TO HER? Dropping the bomb?
YOU need to be the one. You will more than likely be in the same camp as his wife. She may deny it at first, but you have set the wheels in motion.
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My silly wife says she's in so much love that she's ready to accept him with a wife and kids. (even if she doesn't know him that much)
You are not factoring in the fact that the reason for you exposing to his wife is that HE MAY DUMP YOUR WIFE. If he dumps her then she is OUT. She will then come back to you.