I Understand the need to gather evidence and I have STRONG, STRONG EVIDENCE the problem is, I shouldn't have it. I cheated to get it. And im afraid my wife is going to get so angry about me violating her privacy
You better believe she is going to be angry. So? Your marriage can recover from her being angry, but it can't recover while she is in an affair. Don't worry about her anger. She will get over that. Stick to your guns here. She SHOULDN'T be having an affair either. Don't let her anger fool you. EXPECT her to be angry. Big whoopie. You have a RIGHT to know if your wife is in an affair.
