What do you already know about OM that could help you find his wife? Do you have his first and last name? Do you know where he lives? Where he works?
Let your W contact you first. If by phone, don't answer. When she contacts, come back here.
I know who the guy is, he's fairly well know in a circle I have some contacts in. Still It's going to be really hard to just ask, so who's his wife uh? Don't even get me started on the Phone Number.
I Understand the need to gather evidence and I have STRONG, STRONG EVIDENCE the problem is, I shouldn't have it. I cheated to get it. And im afraid my wife is going to get so angry about me violating her privacy. But then, what do I have to lose? She already deceived a guy who has been busting his ass just for her. I guess.
And yes, I do need to wise up that's why I need you guys so much!!
I appreciate so much your help Duddes, Gucci, Greek. Everyone.
I can't reach my therapist right now and i can't afford a DB coach sadly right now. So you all the help I have right now. I do hope life rewards you for this.
Blessing.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *