I'm positive she doesn't know. the OM said to my W in one of their chat, he was still trying to detach but finding it hard because of the children and was trying to buy sometime .
This is GOOD news for you. GREAT news. This is what the married man almost ALWAYS says to the mistress. Almost always. He will tell your wife that he doesn't love his wife and is just staying for the kids. This is a good sign that he probably wouldn't leave his wife for yours. I think you should call his bluff. Exposing will bring him to the point of truth. This (hard time leaving the kids) is what will keep your wife hooked and holding out on that hope. He will keep using that excuse for as long as your wife will allow it. As your wife's friend showed us, they sometimes will wait for YEARS.(four years in her case)
Find a way to get the information on how you can contact his wife. Don't give up. You know the saying of "if there is a will there is a way".....
