Before you do contact her you will need to gather all your evidence of the affair.... Copy of emails, the photos, etc..
A. Finding her is going to be a quest. the guy is based in two locations supposedly, I don't know where the wife would be. Or her name. He doesn't list her on his facebook simple page. I need to know someone who would know him or something like that. It's quite hard atm and I know I'm working against time here.
I shouldn't have these emails. My wife will know this comes all the way from me. The only thing I have legitimately is a set of pictures of them having dinner and I don't even know if they're from that guy and my wife, I can barely see his face on his FB profile.
I have a copy of a chat they both had. Again, wasn't supposed to have this.
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Then come on here before you drop the bomb on his wife. You need to have this plan down to perfection. You will only get one chance to do it right.
A. Will do ------------------ I think your best chance right now is to expose this affair and blow it out of the water. You need to call his bluff and see if he runs back to his wife if she really doesn't know. You need HER to tell you she knows or doesn't know.
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I'm positive she doesn't know. the OM said to my W in one of their chat, he was still trying to detach but finding it hard because of the children and was trying to buy sometime . ---------------------
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Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *