Hi G, regarding the speed of the D I cant control that at all. The first part will be read in court on the 29.03 and then my H can apply for the final decree 6 weeks and 4 days later as he is the one that filed. Unfortunately I didnt realise all of this when he filed. It still doesnt change the fact though that I wouldnt have filed for D. It is ridiculous that he was able to write some lies on a piece of paper submit it to court and some man in a wig gets to decide my family is over. He doesnt even know me.
In the UK, the D can be finalised without the child and financial arrangments being finalised. So you can be D and then still have to make all the finacial arrangment. I find this realy hard as it would be nice that once the final decree goes through you can get on with your life.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived