Flowmom, I am actually hoping mb28 can get someone ELSE to argue this stuff to him.. MB28 is the LAST person I would want to see have to make these arguments.
I said earlier to at LEAST have a friend there if your husband is there so he will temper his bullying...
I am NOT suggesting she get into a HUGE fight... I would RATHER someone ELSE fought for her.. I have been reccomending a protection phase for a LONG TIME NOW... please don't misinterpret this as reccomendatins for direct confrontation.. its just SAMPLE arguments...
I know that you share my concern for mb. I guess I just think that even asking mb to find someone who will argue on behalf of the M is not the right focus for her right now. And realistically, that will be seen as pursuing by her H anyway and it's not likely to help.
Last edited by flowmom; 03/20/1011:04 PM.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.