Flowmom, I am actually hoping mb28 can get someone ELSE to argue this stuff to him.. MB28 is the LAST person I would want to see have to make these arguments.
I said earlier to at LEAST have a friend there if your husband is there so he will temper his bullying...
I am NOT suggesting she get into a HUGE fight... I would RATHER someone ELSE fought for her.. I have been reccomending a protection phase for a LONG TIME NOW... please don't misinterpret this as reccomendatins for direct confrontation.. its just SAMPLE arguments...