June, nice idea.

Here mb28, you can try this one on him if you want :

HUSBAND : We need this divorce as soon as possible so you get better.

YOU : You REALLY want to help?

HUSBAND : Yah

YOU : This divorce you want is REALLY to make ME feel better?

HUSBAND : Sure...

YOU : Then ASK me if it will make me feel better instead of TELLING Me it will..

HUSBAND : But...

YOU : Why don't you pay a visit my therapist and tell HER!?

HUSBAND : I don't need to do that...

YOU : Because SHE -- and I -- think it will put me RIGHT back in the HOSPITAL.

HUSBAND : I don't want to argue.

YOU : You need to start showing MY feelings some RESPECT, first by ASKING me what they are instead of TELLING ME.

HUSBAND : A divorce is best for everyone.

YOU : You are NOT going to bully me into agreeing with you and giving you what YOU want.. I just got out of the HOSPITAL and you are pushing this on ME? This is FOR YOU... you SELFISH man.. you are a HORRIBLE FATHER TO THESE CHILDREN RIGHT NOW... you should be a shamed of yourself forcing a divorce on them when their mother doesns't want it. If you think when they get older I am not going to tell them how you are behaviing you are msitaken... these kids are going to know EXACLTY who wanted a divorce here.. and its NOT ME.

And walk away.