I disagree with Allen's advice to try to argue, cajole, and guilt trip your H into delaying the D. Following that advice is not a wise choice for your mental health right now. Allen means well but IMO mb you need to concentrate on yourself and it sounds like you get that now. Go dark for YOU. Deal with business by email or mail or professionals.

(((mb)))


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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