MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

I see what you are saying HB.The last few days were quite emotional for me and I think part of it was my plan to talk to H about finances. I said I was prepared for a negative response but think that my heart must have known that wasn't true and I think that is part of the reason why I got so sad!!!

H4L made a lot of sense and have been thinking and will do some more but now I think I will let the L handle it. H didn't give me any warnng about the D papers and as you said HB, he has to learn these lessons on his own and I am starting to get very nervous about our financial sitch. Thinking this way since last night into today and I feel so much better!

H came and cleaned out the fish tank and took the kids to breakfast. Told them he had to work tonight. He didn't mention that to me yesterday so not sure about that. But, no matter! He is only hurting himself by not spending time with the kids!

Also, kind of a funny story and kinda eeeeww too. While I was painting yesterday, the phone rang andcaller id showed a "private caller". I answered and heard a click. Then, about an hour later, it rang again and this time it was from a local, divorced man. I had paint on my hands and had no idea why he would be calling here so I didn't answer and he didn't leave a message. Today, my co-worker told me that this guy thinks I am hot and he would like to go out with me. She heard that from her BF who is friends with this guy. She reminder her BF that I am still married and to make sure that that guy knows that! I hardly know this guy, have seen him out walking and said hello but that is all. His W left him a couple of years ago after having an A with her Pastor. Anyway, besides the fact that I AM still married, he is at least 10yrs older than me and I suppose I should feel flattered but I feel eeewww...sort of wish H would find out about it but am pretty sure he wouldn't care! Heck, he'd probably like that as this guy has money!!!! lol

Hopefully H will show up at grandson's birthday party tomorrow. He didn't mention it. DIL will not be happy if he doesn't!