"If this is how you intend on us making parenting decisions for these children you are mistaken. I am NOT going to just sit here and watch you push our children OR ME into something because YOU WANT it. Marriage OR divorce should be a FAMILY decision.. so sit down and start showing me you can be a half decent father to these kids. Is that what you are going to do later on too? Force them into everything because YOU want it even if they don't?"