sorry but I just want to be prepared for every situation.
1. We have a joint account so she KNOWS if buy something or take cash out of the ATM. Even if I pay rent, she'll find out. She's going to know I'm just avoiding her. She's could react to that really angry. What should I do then?
2. What if she drops a letter at work then telling me it's over?
3. The guy she's having an affair with is flying over sometime in the near future.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *