Need a Plan for My Marriage

[Greek]

I am trying to set boundaries, so I cancelled both phones text messaging features, so she cannot text the OM anymore. It would just make me sick seeing his number on the phone log. I should have done that sooner. It felt so good to do. If there is just one call from him on her cell phone, I will start to block that too. She cannot bring this affair to the house. The kiddies and I need some relief from this. My son says "he hates the way our family is not, and he wishes it was like it was." A four old should feel like this. He should not have to deal with this everyday. He needs to have no care in the world. My daughter hates what her mother is doing. She does not like this, and does not want her mother to continue to put him before her and us.

How do they KNOW what is going on?


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