mmmmmmm forward I wonder, just had ex's old aunt on the phone, after 5 months of not going to see her who should ring and ask if she could go up and see her but ex's delightful wifey, aunt says she didnt talk about anything much just my son and her bad back, very strange even aunt is confused that after 5 months of not bothering why she should just want to visit out of the blue, no apology over recent happenings or for not being in touch, all strange on their planet I reckon.