Thanks, Flowmom. You are right that it's more than apartments and leases, it's about DS. I know DS would be thrilled if H and I lived together, he even said to me yesterday that he was sorry his daddy and I didn't live together. It wouldn't be court ordered cutting back support, but more along hte lines like you said, me loaning the money back to him. H did tell me yesterday he is very guarded in his words because I told him that it hurts when he says something to imply he misses me then goes back to her. Which is true, I did tell him that because it does hurt.
Probably going to have H over tomorrow to talk some more.
New thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2112303