Now I have a very very immediate issue to resolve and i;m not in good shape to resolve it.
That's correct you are not in good shape. A man does not REACT... he responds... WHEN HE IS READY.
Is your issue really that important to you? Nope! Is complying to her demands going to help you? Nope! Has meekly obeying her every whim helped you so far? Nope!
Stop doing what DOES NOT work.
You cut off ALL contact with her. She does not call the shots anymore. You do. You will talk to her when YOU feel like it.
Originally Posted By: Fracesc
We had agreed to meet in one week! should I cancel it?
Nope. Don't cancel it. Just don't answer the phone. Don't confirm anything. Let her worry about you for a change. Turn the tide. She wants to dump you right? Well you don't let her!
Originally Posted By: Fracesc
Should I take this other guys advice to reclaim the apartment?
Not at this moment. You are not ready for that just yet. You need the time away from her right now more than you need the money and the aggravation from her presence.
You DO NOT confront her with the affair YET. You only get one chance at that. Confrontation and exposure if done incorrectly will work AGAINST you.
