hey no problem. I've seen alot of affairs, know alot of affairs going on now, talked to people on both sides of the fence and have friends who have gotten to the point of open marriages. I can tell you true stories that would turn your stomach, but I would'nt tell you to get out and have some fun and start thinking about yourself and not your wife for a while if I taught being $hit upon to be a good thing or a productive way to get to a point where you could effectively work on a relationship with your wife.
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Maybe I change my mind later but I also need to acknowledge that I made mistakes that confused her and pushed them to that unfortunate decision.
what is "unfortunate" about their decision? "unfortunate" for you maybe. But for them, well ....
