No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

Thanks Sandi.

I guess what my worry is that I've detached so much that now I find myself forcing myself to continue to do the work. I mean I'm so glad I'm seeing positive signs, but I was fighting so hard to get to this point, that now I'm here, I'm having a hard time to keep the positives going.

I remember you said that your H tried a number of things, but you were the one that had to change your thinking and each time he tried, you viewed him as a little pathetic. Was there anything he did positively that kind of guided you to think "hey it's not really that bad after all"?

I'm planning my next set of goals.