Yup yup... I totally agree.. And I don't plan on mentioning MLC again with him.. I took a chance because he really did seem to be present and listening.. Haven't heard anything further from his neck of the woods and probably won't either..

I'm not contacting him or his family.. I'm back to working on me and acting as if.. Even if he wanted to come home tomorrow, I'm not ready for him to.. He has to be fully cooked and done before I'd feel comfortable.. and I've still got a lot of me-work to do first...

It's a step possibly.. or he can scoot back and find another OW.. we'll see... I hope not.. I hope he can move to the next stage of MLC (if he has indeed hit bottom).. but I'm not expecting anything from him or for our R...


~ This Diamond now SHINES!! ;-p ~

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