WAW and the law of attraction

[FormelyknownasF]

if you were your wife and she just found out and called her friends, i wouldn't doubt they be yelling, 'dump that loser lets go out and find you a new guy'

Appreciate your thoughs, Steve but you see I'm not my wife.

I am currently revaluating if I do want to fight for my marriage after this.
I think I do. Maybe I change my mind later but I also need to acknowledge that I made mistakes that confused her and pushed them to that unfortunate decision. That's my share and I accept that.

I'm re-reading DR on the Infidelity chapter.

Hopefully I can get help from a vet or someone who has more constructive feedback but again, I do appreciate your thoughts.