try not to walk on eggshells. my H is still doing that dance and it makes things so uneasy for me and the kids. it builds a tension that doesn't need to be there.
Difference between being nice and persuing? hmmmmm... the thought process behind it. I know when my H is doing something just to get a certain response from the action.
Just by being genuine in all actions/thoughts/words....she will know the difference. Do NOTHING with the intention of getting a certain response from her. Just be real. I'll try to think of more specific examples.
Tbart...my latest thread was called Super Close - 3...I'm SURE I posted specific examples of his pursuits. Its been a while back tho. I'll post more when I have more time.
My thoughts were with you so I had to pop in real fast today...that's something I missed from not being here so long...You have people pulling for you.
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If she's at the airport do I give her a hug, and what do I say? Once I get home she's dropping me off and it's just me and the kids. How long before we talk? What will I say? What shouldn't I say? Things like this are bouncing through my head.
The paragraph above is a prime example of projection. ALL is out of your control - so don't waste the energy of allowing those thoughts to have time in your brain.
