NCB...{{{{hugs}}}} I know that must be so very difficult, but you did a good job handling it. I am sure your X does want you to give up, so hold tight. Make your interactions with your boys as psoitive as possible. Have your kids had any counseling? It may become necessary for them, especially the youngest who is obviously struggling. Getting a professional involved may be the best thing. They may be able to see what your X is doing and help stop it....or worst case scenario, be a witness if you end up back in court.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
