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Grrrrr! for you! Inquiring minds want to know?


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D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
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I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too



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Oh, how dumb!

Guys... I am ashamed to admit, I'm not really sure WHY I posted that I was pissed last night. I was REALLY buzzed, and, I didn't even drink much! Seriously, over a span of seven hours, I only had one mixed drink, one cosmo and two beers. Must be the stress of our situation...

I will say, though, I was a dancing machine!


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After many years w/my head in the sand...
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Mind,
why woul dyou be ashamed ? no need to..
If you had fun "FANTASTIC"
Go for it!!..

PS>.. love reading how your changes are going!!...
Keep it up.


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Cesco, thanks!! I lost track of your thread! Just found it... you need an update!

Little snippets are coming back from last night... I think I'm ok, and H is being ok this am, so... I think I came out of it unscathed.

Hey, I did get the superintendent on the dance floor, though. Some parents bet me $100 I couldn't do it. I won!

And, I got some great reports on my kids from the teachers there. They all think they're nice kids. Must be doing something right!

OK, more changes today... Motrin, Water, greasy fries and something chocolate! I'll feel like new again!


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Originally Posted By: mindfull
I will say, though, I was a dancing machine!
grin

Gotta say, I feel veeeery tipsy after 3 drinks, even if spaced out wink

But I NEED to hear outfit details!!!


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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Flo - This is my dress.

http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/pr..._medium=organic

That model must be REALLY tall though, because I'm 5'7, and it wasn't that short on me... skimmed right above the knees.

H picked out the shoes... choices were:

No hose, black wedges, in fact similar to the pic!
Hose (plain OR patterned - found some!) w/black heels
Hose (plain OR patterned) w/tall black boots.

He chose plain hose, w/tall black boots.

And, purple and silver costume jewelry.

H wore, this shirt... http://www.bonanzle.com/booths/comfyshoe...L_L__S_NWT__145
(Wasn't that cheap when I got it! Grrrrrr!)

Black flat front dress trousers

Black vest (ditched the vest at the event)

Can you tell how much I shop online? LOL I hate the act of shopping!

I just talked to H, as he is out running errands. I told him that I think the drinks affected me so much because of this detox and cleanse... He said he just thought I looked like I was having a good time! Whew! Guess I was fine!


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Your outfits sound great! LOVE paisley smile


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Yea, he looked hot! H had about 20 compliments on that shirt!


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Whew! You are safe! Sometimes when I am out I forget how rarely I drink and they catch up with me, too...good to know you didn't say anything too embarrassing! smile

Love the dress, and his shirt. Nice! In my neck of the woods there is no Bloomingdales or Macy's, our "high end" stores are Dillards and Von Maur. In fact I do a lot of my shopping at JC Penney... wink But I love the clothes!


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mindfull,
Each one of us has posted in the 'heat of the moment'. The trick is not to let it happen regularly. From everything I've seen, you know how to enforce your boundaries.
You'll get no judgement from me...
goldey (the girl with her own pair of boots)


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S:22, S:19, D:16
Filed Oct 08, dismissed
Filed again Jan 10, dismissed
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