I don't want to get into an argument about any of this, but I have read a lot of your posts, Lotus, and most of the advise you give would be good for marriage-relationship improvements(before the W is ready to walk out),but when the W is ready for a D and wants to walk out the door, too much of what you say is very pursuing and too late to work in in most WAW cases.
The difference with Lotus' comparison's Sandi is that Lotus was the LBS, giving an LBS advice to do for a LBS that worked for an LBS I don't think is gonig to be all that relevant.
I think most of us LBS' would have enjoyed gifts from a WAS! But in this case the context is not the same... right?
