When you are a parent, there is NOTHING that should come between you and your children. NOTHING. Irma, I get what you are saying and why you are saying it...however...I don't agree that anything, other than being the best father possible, should be on Bradley's mind right now. And being the best father possible may mean giving up on things he had planned for his life, and being in "uncomfortable situations," and maybe other things he is not anticipating. SO WHAT? In the end, the time with his kids will be the most important thing, no matter what happens.
Bradley, you are impressing the hell out of me. Don't second guess yourself...
